Have a look at Hoyden About Town’s Anti-Feminist Bingo. Men, wonder why you’re not coming across well to your feminist friends? Well here’s your answer. I confess I’m guilty of the “patriarchy is detrimental to men” thought as well. I suppose this comes from my attachments to variants of structuralist and post-structural anthropology and being convinced by Deleuze and Guattari’s arguments about the Oedipus and the Oedipal character of oppositional thought. Perhaps some of my readers, if there are any, can inform me why this particular observation fits with the others.